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I am an unmarried male, 28 Yrs Old. I had moved from my home town and now I am staying in my maternal aunt's ( Mother's elder sister) house for the last 8 months for my job reasons. My Cousin Sister had a divorce and is staying with her parents ( My aunt & uncle) for the last 1 year. Ever since I started staying there, she became very friendly and slowly started to share her personal issues and about her problems in marriage. But recently , she was getting too close to me and I too got attracted to her. recently I was provoked when two of us were all alone at house and we had sex. After this incident, I started feeling guilty and feared about what this could lead to , while both of us are brother & sister? I slowly try avoiding her, and only go home , when my aunt or uncle is there or when they return from any work. Because of this my Cousin had started becoming angry and disappointed with me, and She keeps looking for a chance to get close to me, tries to seduce me, I am also afraid , what if she gets pregnant due to our earlier time intercourse. She doesn’t seem to worry or think about this at all. It would be odd, if I tell them I am going to rent a house and live separately, don't know what reason I would say my parents and Aunt... Kindly help me, how do I manage this situation, How can I change my cousin's mind ?

Aug 23,2023


This is very complicated issue, it is important to immediately clear this situation to avoid futher complication and emotional damage for both the families • You should talk to your cousin and explain about the fling that happened was that moments time thing and it does not have any base to continue. • Acknowledge that , as family members, it's important to maintain a respectful and appropriate relationship. Emphasize that you value her as family, but things cannot continue in this way. • Avoid any more situations where you might be alone together, you should consider moving out. • suggest taking a pregnancy test to her be sure nothing happened. • Be mindful of how you interact with her going forward. Avoid situations where you might be alone together and reinforce the boundaries you’ve set.

  • Thasleem